Tips for parents & carers

When a child's mum or dad is incarcerated, it's hard to know where to start when telling them. These tips will help.

Here are some examples of ways you can start difficult conversations with a child about a parent in custody.

The first few weeks after a parent's arrest can be hard with lots of change. It's okay to priortise your children during this time. (See also Grief & Loss: How to help your child)

The first weeks after a partner's arrest can be especially hard. Here are tips to help you get through them.

If you find yourself doing some of these things, consider reaching out for support.

Family and friends might have lots of questions. Here are some ideas to make these conversations easier.

Tips to help you decide if to, when to and how often to visit your child's parent in custody.

Why visiting a parent in custody (when it's safe and practical) is so important for children.

Having honest conversations with your partner while they are in custody can be difficult, but it’s helpful to keep open lines of communication. This is why.

Tips for handling difficult conversations with a family member in custody.

Here are some tips for helping families to get ready for a parent to be released from custody.

Here are some tips for helping a parent adjust to being home again after they are released from custody.

Help understanding what your child might be feeling when their parent goes into custody.

Here are some tips for how to support your child after a loved one is incarcerated. (See also The first weeks: How to help your child).

These are some signs to watch out for that might mean your child needs extra support.