For parents & carers
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How to explain prison to a child
When a child's mum or dad is incarcerated, it's hard to know where to start when telling them. These tips will help.
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Examples and ideas for talking with children
Here are some examples of ways you can start difficult conversations with a child about a parent in custody.
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The first weeks: How to help your child
The first few weeks after a parent's arrest can be hard with lots of change. It's okay to priortise your children during this time. (See also Grief & Loss: How to help your child)
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The first weeks: How to help yourself
The first weeks after a partner's arrest can be especially hard. Here are tips to help you get through them.
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Signs you might need to reach out for help
If you find yourself doing some of these things, consider reaching out for support.
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Examples and ideas for talking with friends and family
Family and friends might have lots of questions. Here are some ideas to make these conversations easier.
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Visits: Deciding how often (and when not to)
Tips to help you decide if to, when to and how often to visit your child's parent in custody.
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Visits: Why they matter
Why visiting a parent in custody (when it's safe and practical) is so important for children.
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Survival tips for carers: Positives of communication
Having honest conversations with your partner while they are in custody can be difficult, but it’s helpful to keep open lines of communication. This is why.
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Survival tips for carers: Managing hard coversations
Tips for handling difficult conversations with a family member in custody.
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Coming home: Preparing for a parent to be released
Here are some tips for helping families to get ready for a parent to be released from custody.
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Coming home: After a parent returns to family
Here are some tips for helping a parent adjust to being home again after they are released from custody.
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Grief & Loss: Understanding your child
Help understanding what your child might be feeling when their parent goes into custody.
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Grief & Loss: Helping your child
Here are some tips for how to support your child after a loved one is incarcerated. (See also The first weeks: How to help your child).
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Grief & Loss: Signs to watch out for in your child
These are some signs to watch out for that might mean your child needs extra support.